Most high school students have high hopes and dreams of one day attending a prestigious college. I was no different. Nearly all of my high school activities revolved around the idea of resume building and college acceptance. Every paper I wrote, book I read, or club meeting I attended, I was in it for the greater purpose of being accepted to college. All of this work and anticipation made my decision of choosing my college extremely difficult and overbearing, but I am overwhelmingly happy with where I ended up.
The college lifestyle is so different from that of high school. No longer do I have to answer to my parents, be in (most) of my classes, worry being tardy, staying on campus during school hours, and on and on. I am on my own, and loving it. My transition into college seemed so natural and smooth. I was so ready to be done with the high school drama and structure and finally be truly independent. While I observe my peers, and see the different ways people have handled there adjustments, it makes me quite often think why some people have been able to handle the change better than others.
For me, personally, I think what helped my smooth transition was how independently my parents raised me. Having an older sister gave me more leeway around the house, and I was able to make my own decisions for the most part. I have never been grounded, and I think, from this, I have learned to punish myself for my own actions. I think this is important and the way that it should be.
Now that I no longer do my homework and my activities so that I can get into college, I have to do it for myself. It is my challenge now to find what goal will keep me striving to do my best. Maybe it will be acceptance to the business school, or maybe working towards getting a great job. Regardless, I’m on my own now. The responsibilities are all up to me. I’ve made the transition, and now its time for me to strive to do my best. I think we can all relate during this part of our lives. We all need to find a new type of motivation to keep us going, on track, and doing the right thing.
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I agree. College is so much differnt then high school. Its almost like we are in a new world and we are learing all about ourselves. And yes I am very happy with the college we are attending.
My college transition was much more different than your transition. Like yourself, I love the fact that school is not stuctured with seven periods a day. However, my non-school hours are harder for me. I thought I might like independency, but I really miss just hanging out with my family. I no longer eat supper with my parents and talk about my day. When there is problems on homework, I can't ask my mom for help. That sounds funny, but it was the combination of my mom and myself that allowed me to get good enough grades in school. I also miss my father's advice. We would always have about an hour long talk before bed. My brothers, while they could be loud, were always there for me to have fun with. The transitions that you have made are excellent, and I envy your success.
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